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Important Note: This Website contains information about me, my partner, family & friends. Just because I am GAY does not mean any friends & family appearing here are gay also. Also note, some albums may contain some nudity, some behind passwords, so if easily offended please avoid these Albums, you'll know when you find them, ha-ha.

Opened: September 09, 2008

My name is Steve "aka" Fugster Farder and I wish to welcome you to my hobby website.

Originally when I started this site in September 2009, it was called Fugly Farter's World, but as there was confusion as to the meaning of the name, I changed the name to I guess less funny name. I guess most people understand the meaning of FUGLY, it meaning "Fucking Ugly" but the meaning of FARTER was misunderstood. In my day FART meant "Old Man" but obviously it was confused with a bodily function. Ha-Ha guess its an easy mistake to make. The name "Fugly" remains officially, extended to a nickname form Fugster. Why Farder? It has a similar sound to "Father" and although I am not a father in real terms sadly.

I have been called "Daddy" by "Younger", young gay's who seek out older men as relationship partner's, sexual partner's and/or confidants. My experience many either have no father or can not talk to their father, with some actually being straight and not gay, many just need a senior male figure they can talk too. With the introduction of the internet, email and chat, it has been much easier to connect to other people, as well as it offers some anonymity. I must have that sort of face I guess as it happens quite often that I am contacted by many younger's who confide in me, basically need someone who is not going to judge them, dismiss their needs and feelings, take them seriously and although everyone's pain is different I find my experiences have commonality to theirs.

I see the father, like the mother as people who cares for, supports, guides their child through life and into adulthood. Sadly in some situations, one or both parents fail to fulfil that role. Don't get me wrong, I do not consider myself to be anyone's father but coming from a non responsive situation with my father whose only attention towards me was of abuse, mental, verbal and physical throughout my childhood until his death in 1979. Although I have come to terms with my childhood, understand myself lot more, I have found it does get better, although sometimes it may not feel that way.

Anyway I hope you find something of interest in my website. Please Sign My Guestbook and Read My Blog.


Screen Names
Real Name
Date of Birth
Employment
Fugly "Fugster" Farder
Steve Oz
Steven John
Williams
28th August
1963
Not Working
Disabled Pensioner
Height
Weight
Hair
Eyes
Sexuality
Out To
Zodiac
179cm
122kg
Brown
Blue
Gay
All
Virgo
Rabbit

VERY STRAIGHT ACTING

Hardly anyone would be able to pick you as a Homo boy. All your actions are carefully crafted in a way that they never appear to be considered too fem. Only a fellow level 2 -- buddy might suspect you with the proper Gaydar and it's just the way you like it.


Virgo Zodiac
Sun Sign is Virgo Sun Sign is Virgo - Personal rul

Sun Sign is Virgo

Ruling planets are Mercury and Sun

Your courage is not easily seen, but nevertheless there. Perhaps it is your valor and daring quality is more in the realms of where people rarely go. You have a strong sense of adventure and curiosity especially with the hidden aspects of nature and life itself. You think about those things that possibly don't interest others, but you do it with a clear grasp that makes you innovative and unique in what you do, even in this practical world. Success in foreign lands or with foreign products, could result in success for you.

The RABBIT

The RABBIT

Sociable, Discreet, Refined, Shrewd, Perceptive, Sensitive, Aloof.

Ideal Jobs Include:

Antique dealer, Diplomat, Administrator, Interior decorator, Politician, Historian, Art collector, Barrister, Tailor, Receptionist, Chemist, Landlord, Pharmacist, Beautician, Accountant, Librarian.

While they may not like it, the Rabbit is a timid, attractive being who is usually non-confrontational. Rabbits are very popular with friends and family. They are inherently compassionate and protective of those they care about. Rabbits idealize their relationships and may give far more of themselves than is healthy. Fortunately the Rabbit surrounds itself with friends and family who will help it regain its balance when thrown off emotionally. Rabbits are a bit fragile and need a solid social foundation in order to thrive. Without a strong family and close friends the Rabbit will not stand up well to adversity. Rabbits are so sensitive to their feelings that any emotional upset may make them physically sick. Rabbits can be pessimistic if they feel as though their lives are at a stand-still. By nature they are insecure about their place in the world. Rabbits move through life at their own pace. They are both contemplative and often procrastinators. Rabbits are a bit fragile and need a solid social foundation in order to thrive. Without a strong family and close friends the Rabbit will not stand up well to adversity. Rabbits are so sensitive to their feelings that any emotional upset may make them physically sick. Rabbits can be pessimistic if they feel as though their lives are at a stand-still. By nature they are insecure about their place in the world. Rabbits move through life at their own pace. They are both contemplative and often procrastinators. Rabbits love the home life. Within a strong family environment the Rabbit may find the security it needs to blossom and become more self-assertive.


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 Favorite Quotes:
  • "A HUG a day keeps the blues away so HUG someone today and show you care"
  • "What you see in an image, Doesn't show what's inside."
  • "Always open to self improvement, even so I am who I am, know who I am and comfortable with who I am."
  • "We are more than the sum of our parts"
  • *hugs*n*kisses*
  •  About Me:

  • My name is Steve and I live in Adelaide, Australia
  • After Friendship NOT SEX or SEXUAL Fun
  • Ex Sports Trainer (Injury Treatment & Management, Massage, Instructed Weight Training)
  • Not Working (disabled pensioner)
  • Open Minded
  • Good sense of Humor
  • Laid Back & Down to Earth
  • Patience, Understanding & Affectionate
  •  Interests:

  • My hobby website
  • Nudist/Naturalist
  • Sports Medicine
  • Collect Gay Theme, Coming of Age & Social Issue Movies
  • Arts & Culture (truly admire artistic people)
  •  I Believe:

    • No one is normal, ordinary or average, we are all special individuals with our own unique ideas, beliefs and outlooks on life. Just because those ideas and beliefs may differ, that does not mean that we can not all respect one another.
    • Trust is a factor, have to trust to a certain level but for the most part trust is earned, which breeds loyalty
    • Friendship is the start and basis of a relationship, but does it have to mean everything is about sex? Friendship can be just Friendship.

     What Anger's & Saddens Me:

  • Racism
  • Bullying
  • Discrimination
  • Intolerance
  • Judgmental people
  • People wrapped up in their own self-importance
  •  Hopes & Dreams:

    • Meet New People, Make New Friendships
    • A world where everyone of every nation, stopped fighting each other and instead fight Global Warming, Helping the sick and hungry by abolishing poverty.
    • Hold the hope people will be open minded enough to give me a chance, take my hand in friendship.